Bigler Counseling - Marriage and Family Counseling, Mediation, Psychotherapy











      

Recovery from an Affair

Consultation when an Affair is Discovered/Revealed
This is one of the most painful realizations between two married people. Guidance is provided to both the "betrayed" and the "wayward" spouse and discovery is provided as to how to move ahead into resolution of the conflicts and possibly to the reconstruction of the marriage.

Surviving an Affair
From understanding the beginning of an affair through the restoration of the marriage is addressed for both persons. How to end an affair; how to restore the marriage after an affair and how to manage the resentment and rebuild trust is addressed in a healing atmosphere.

Rebuilding a Relationship
Surviving the crisis of the broken relationship is only the beginning of the process of making a "new" relationship with the same two people. To stop with the old relationship being "saved" is never enough. A new relationship must rise out of the ashes of the old relationship that stopped working.

Steps to a New Life
Surviving the pain of a broken relationship is more than survival, it includes minimizing the suffering and emergence with new trust and means to build love for each other. This includes learning the needs of each other, identifying the time needed to grow, protecting each other from unnecessary harm and developing honest and open communication.

Articles of Interest

 

[Welcome][Meet Lew Bigler][Marriage][Divorce Mediation]
[Affairs] [Mental Health Counseling][Teaching Programs][Contact Information][Helpful Links]